> Well it's always up to you if you consider your genetic parent, your "real father" Exactly the situation I'm in, with both a parent and a grandparent, and it

> Well it's always up to you if you consider your genetic parent, your "real father" Exactly the situation I'm in, with both a parent and a grandparent, and it's always boiled down to these people have had a significant impact on my life, and these people have not. I don't understand the obsession with genetics - the thought "he's not my real father" has never once crossed my mind.