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This is an interesting piece of advice and I will try it. I have a peculiar nature where I go out of my way to help others but resist favours and help. It is no

This is an interesting piece of advice and I will try it. I have a peculiar nature where I go out of my way to help others but resist favours and help. It is not received very well and have always been confused by it. Can you expand on 'there is no better way of creating a true enemy than ...'

danieltillett 8y ago
It appear that people are not very good at carrying the psychology burden caused by not being able to return help. They need to find some way of unloading this debt and if they can't help you back, the best solution seems to be to turn it into hate. The people who hate me the most in the world are not those that I have wronged, but those I really helped. Make sure that if you help someone that you ask them for some help back - it doesn't need to be anything big, but the sooner you unload the debt the happier the person will be towards you. If there is nothing you need help with just make something up and then say thank you.