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The problem is when you tie them to money it implies you stop doing them and you don't get money. Whereas it should be you don't do them and you are not part of
by bwb 8y ago
The problem is when you tie them to money it implies you stop doing them and you don't get money. Whereas it should be you don't do them and you are not part of the family, and lose the right to your bed and stuff.
- m0zg 8y agoSure, as a parent myself I understand what the problem is. I was just challenging the notion that that parents have any leverage in this negotiation anymore.
- mturmon 8y agoIt is not a negotiation. We have tried to frame it as a question of ethical behavior. The kid wants to preserve the notion of a just household, and sees the logic of doing her part, provided the “ask” is equitable.