A lot of the most useful bits of "software process" are just adopting norms around evaluating whether we like the norms we've built so we can change norms that

A lot of the most useful bits of "software process" are just adopting norms around evaluating whether we like the norms we've built so we can change norms that have stopped being productive. We can't escape our social nature, but we do have a choice of how we use our instinctive drive to belong.