FYI, these kind of beliefs surface mainly when people engage in groupthink. Few individuals actually believe these things. The vast majority believe in helping

FYI, these kind of beliefs surface mainly when people engage in groupthink. Few individuals actually believe these things. The vast majority believe in helping each other, but they prefer to help voluntarily rather than forcefully. Helping forcefully is often seen as a loss of freedom. Individuals are often OK with that loss of freedom, even though it hurts. I hope that perspective helps you in your future discussions. :-)