I do not think we should really presume anything. > That she hasn't pressed charges is still above and beyond the call of duty on her part, […] This I disagre

I do not think we should really presume anything. > That she hasn't pressed charges is still above and beyond the call of duty on her part, […] This I disagree with. A public outing can be just as, if not more damaging to the alleged assailant. It is possible that she also thought or thinks along your tracks, but I do not think it is factually true that this is somehow a "soft" option.