Your dissatisfaction may stem from expecting this article to be a self-help piece. But what it really is is a review of a book of scholarly essays. You may fi

Your dissatisfaction may stem from expecting this article to be a self-help piece. But what it really is is a review of a book of scholarly essays. You may find more satisfaction in the self-help section of your local library or bookstore, or maybe in the pages of Psychology Today rather than in The New Yorker.