That's the whole point. Their name is /not/ "Mrs. [husband's first and last name]" There are definitely people I know that would be okay with being addressed t

That's the whole point. Their name is /not/ "Mrs. [husband's first and last name]" There are definitely people I know that would be okay with being addressed this way. There are many I also know who have expressed that this makes them feel less like an individual human and more like an accessory to their husband.