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I've had it happen to me - I guess on two occasions. I was shocked, It felt repulsive (because a drunk woman 30 years older than you grabbing for your balls tr

I've had it happen to me - I guess on two occasions. I was shocked, It felt repulsive (because a drunk woman 30 years older than you grabbing for your balls trying to stick her tongue into you mouth is hardly attractive). It didn't feel good, but I didn't feel "damaged" because of it either. I left the place and went home. No blogging, no police, no drama. It's not like there was some sort of conspiracy to destroy my person. It was an unfortunate sexual misconduct that a person needs not to dwell upon. There is a big difference between unwanted approaches, even being creepy - and actual rape or "sexual assault".

puredemo 16y ago
This is my general take on it as well.
taosbob 16y ago
Brings back a mostly forgotten incident from several years ago. I'm a tall white guy living as an expat in Seoul, speak Korean on the job, am pretty deep into the local community and sort of forget from time to time that I look different. Riding the subway one day during rush hour I couldn't help but notice the guy next to me, a total stranger, was pressing hard against my privates with his hand through his own coat pocket. Thinking it might just be an accident and immersed in my reading I turned away 90 degrees. Sure enough five minutes later they guy had changed position was once again attempting to stroke me, quite hard. Mind officially blown, I moved to the other end of the car, mused on the creepiness of the situation, then promptly forgot about it. Uncomfortable? Mildly disgusting? Yes. But not "sexual assault."