In any situation it's not just about a perpetrator and a person who has been attacked, it's also about the community. As a community, if we are aware of a dang

In any situation it's not just about a perpetrator and a person who has been attacked, it's also about the community. As a community, if we are aware of a danger to a member of our community then we have an obligation to work to remove that danger. If that requires putting up a light in that dark alley, standing up for people at conferences or whatever then we have a responsibility to do so. This whole conversation will have been for little if the next time you or I observe unacceptable behaviour we do nothing about it. It says something for the Apache community that the author felt that their were people she was able to make contact with about it. But we all need to move from the place where we are the ambulance at the bottom of the cliff.