Understood, and yes people do need moderate their own behavior in order to safeguard their own safety. We don't live in a perfect utopia. It's just that every

Understood, and yes people do need moderate their own behavior in order to safeguard their own safety. We don't live in a perfect utopia. It's just that every time a women is assaulted and the first response out of most of the people she tells (including the police! and others who are supposed to be there for her safety!) is "Well what did you do wrong?" it makes women want to not speak up at all.