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The 'pattern' is that she is a woman. Stuff like this happens to women all the time, regardless of their behavior. Its not the behavior of the women that is at
by angrycoder 16y ago
The 'pattern' is that she is a woman. Stuff like this happens to women all the time, regardless of their behavior.
Its not the behavior of the women that is at fault, it is the man's.
- bradleyjoyce 16y agoI would think that the pattern is more than just being a woman... but I know what you are trying to say. I'm not saying that her behavior is at fault (100% the man's fault), but I'm suggesting that PERHAPS there is something she could have done differently to avoid what happened, and if so, it would be worthwhile to determine what that possible thing is.
- angrycoder 16y agoNo, I mean that quite literally. The pattern is being a woman. I don't know a single woman that something like this hasn't happened to, and it is usually much worse than an unwelcomed kiss and grope. The only way to avoid it is tell a woman to never be attractive. Never be friendly to men. Don't ever smile at them. And god forbid, don't flirt with them. Don't get drunk and try to have fun. When us guys get wasted, the worst thing we have to worry about is one of our friends shaving our eyebrows, not some strange dude trying to fuck us.
- hypatiadotca 16y agobeing "unattractive" has never been any sort of protection against sexual assault :/