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I can't share the specifics to protect the privacy of the people involved. But, I help out with a lot of conferences and speak at dozens more every year. I've h
by sh1mmer 16y ago
I can't share the specifics to protect the privacy of the people involved. But, I help out with a lot of conferences and speak at dozens more every year. I've heard at least 3 accounts similar to this, just this year, at other conferences.
Very often they end with a minor hero, like Bill in this case, acting as a chaperone for someone who should never need one at all.
It frustrates me greatly that despite the effort that many conferences do to make conference going more egalitarian, welcoming and safe for women some men are still as ignorant, offensive, and disgusting as to treat women this way.
- justaguyb 16y agoI also tend to take it on face value, because my experience is that women are treated extremely poorly at these events, particularly if they're even a little bit attractive. Large numbers of men, many of whom have social issues, widely available alcohol, and small numbers of women... it's a recipe for something really terrible.