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I always feel bad when asking to pack the leftovers at the restaurant. is it rude or a sign of being poor? I'm unsure.

mikestew 8y ago
If it weren’t expected, restaurants wouldn’t keep stacks of to-go boxes lying around. As for a sign of being poor, who gives a shit? I’m obviously wealthy enough to eat at your restaurant. And if you’d like me to share some of that wealth again, you’ll box thus shit up without comment. But enough anonymous internet tough guy talk, I’ve been taking home food for decades and no one has ever uttered a word. Olive Garden to $200/person, it’ll get boxed with a smile. Hell, waitstaff often come around and ask if you want a box (which I sometimes take to mean, “I’d like to turn this table, Slowpoke.” <g>).
NikolaeVarius 8y ago
No one cares
nkrisc 8y ago
In the U.S. no one cares. Maybe you'll get a look in a very expensive restaurant but they'll probably do it anyway. I've had food boxed up in a ~$100 per person restaurant before and it was completely normal for them.
jasonkester 8y ago
Nah, they know they're serving you twice as much food as a human can eat. Cut everything neatly in half when it arrives and move it off to the side for easy boxing. Then eat a sensible amount and ask for a box for the rest. Places that don't expect this will signal as much by serving you a portion that wont make you ill.
usrusr 8y ago
> Is it rude or a sign of being poor? Thinking about wether or not it is a sign of being poor is a sign of being poor. What would Scrooge McDuck do?
- nkrisc 8y ago
  > What would Scrooge McDuck do? Whatever the f* he wants.
ygra 8y ago
At least here (Germany) it's totally normal and no one would think anything of it.
toast0 8y ago
Asking to pack the leftovers is a complement! It says, this was so delicious, I want to have it again. I've had chefs at small restaurants thank me with huge smiles when I asked for a box. I do feel bad when I can't (or won't) finish, and don't ask for a box. Aiming to eat only half the meal, so you have a good amount to bring home can sometimes help avoid overconsumption, too.

If it weren’t expected, restaurants wouldn’t keep stacks of to-go boxes lying around. As for a sign of being poor, who gives a shit? I’m obviously wealthy enough to eat at your restaurant. And if you’d like me to share some of that wealth again, you’ll box thus shit up without comment. But enough anonymous internet tough guy talk, I’ve been taking home food for decades and no one has ever uttered a word. Olive Garden to $200/person, it’ll get boxed with a smile. Hell, waitstaff often come around and ask if you want a box (which I sometimes take to mean, “I’d like to turn this table, Slowpoke.” <g>).

NikolaeVarius 8y ago

No one cares

nkrisc 8y ago

In the U.S. no one cares. Maybe you'll get a look in a very expensive restaurant but they'll probably do it anyway. I've had food boxed up in a ~$100 per person restaurant before and it was completely normal for them.

jasonkester 8y ago

Nah, they know they're serving you twice as much food as a human can eat. Cut everything neatly in half when it arrives and move it off to the side for easy boxing. Then eat a sensible amount and ask for a box for the rest. Places that don't expect this will signal as much by serving you a portion that wont make you ill.

usrusr 8y ago

> Is it rude or a sign of being poor? Thinking about wether or not it is a sign of being poor is a sign of being poor. What would Scrooge McDuck do?

nkrisc 8y ago
> What would Scrooge McDuck do? Whatever the f* he wants.

ygra 8y ago

At least here (Germany) it's totally normal and no one would think anything of it.

toast0 8y ago

Asking to pack the leftovers is a complement! It says, this was so delicious, I want to have it again. I've had chefs at small restaurants thank me with huge smiles when I asked for a box. I do feel bad when I can't (or won't) finish, and don't ask for a box. Aiming to eat only half the meal, so you have a good amount to bring home can sometimes help avoid overconsumption, too.