> What does creepy mean? Difficulty with social norms? Unusual interests? Physical unnatractiveness? You think these are choices? Creepy when it comes to the i

> What does creepy mean? Difficulty with social norms? Unusual interests? Physical unnatractiveness? You think these are choices? Creepy when it comes to the incel label typically means one of two things: groundless desire on an individual level (i.e. "he wants me even though he doesn't know me at all") or issues with control or manipulative behavior (i.e. "I deserve for this girl to like me, how do I make her like me?"). Neither of these qualities indicate people who are willing or able to seek genuine emotional connection and neither have anything to do with social norms, interests or hobbies, or physical standards of attractiveness.