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I can attest, I've always sent very obscene messages but no one really made an issue out of it. That said, i am rich + no college + good looks. Rudeness isn't

I can attest, I've always sent very obscene messages but no one really made an issue out of it. That said, i am rich + no college + good looks. Rudeness isn't a problem if you've things working in your favour. That said, i am trying to improve as a person so that others have their pleasant day as well.

stared 8y ago
Anecdotally, there is an experiment "How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gv7RlkPfCl4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gv7RlkPfCl4 (I assume it's real, though as always - it's hard to prove).
- ryandrake 8y ago
  > "How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys" That title makes no sense at all. Whether or not a message is creepy has nothing to do with the content of the message and everything to do with the recipient’s perception—namely does the recipient find the sender attractive? It’s impossible for an person who is attractive to the recipient to send a “creepy” message, because it will not be perceived as such.
  - eigenstuff 8y ago
    >It’s impossible for an person who is attractive to the recipient to send a “creepy” message, because it will not be perceived as such. As a woman, this is completely false. "Creepy" doesn't mean "ugly," it means makes me feel unsafe or threatened. I don't care how hot you are, if you give off rapist/murderer vibes, you're a creep. I have met hot guys who were creepy.
    - InGodsName 8y ago
      As a woman, this is completely false. "Creepy" doesn't mean "ugly," it means makes me feel unsafe or threatened. I don't care how hot you are, if you give off rapist/murderer vibes, you're a creep. I have met hot guys who were creepy. He isn't only talking about physical attraction but attraction as in having a crush on someone or finding them lot attractive. Think about it, if you get a date with your crush, would you think like, oh he might rape me? No such thought doesn't come to us when we are attracted to someone. I can show you screenshot of conversations in which women enjoy my obscene messages. It differs for every girl but what you are saying is not more "normal" than what Ryandrake is saying. What's creepy is a subjective thing. There is no thing Universally Creepy. If a send a dick pic to a girl who had crush on me, is it creepy? She might not agree with you, I've tried :) The girls who are interested in me. I do ask them if they want my nude pics? After realising that i am non judgemental open minded guy, they do tell me that they want nudes. Yea, a few also got offended but i considered them to be feminist kind. I believe sexual desires are nothing to hide. It's better to display your desire for others with all honesty. If they say no, swiftly go back. No need to pester anyone.
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stared 8y ago

Anecdotally, there is an experiment "How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gv7RlkPfCl4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gv7RlkPfCl4 (I assume it's real, though as always - it's hard to prove).

ryandrake 8y ago
> "How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Hot Guys" That title makes no sense at all. Whether or not a message is creepy has nothing to do with the content of the message and everything to do with the recipient’s perception—namely does the recipient find the sender attractive? It’s impossible for an person who is attractive to the recipient to send a “creepy” message, because it will not be perceived as such.
- eigenstuff 8y ago
  >It’s impossible for an person who is attractive to the recipient to send a “creepy” message, because it will not be perceived as such. As a woman, this is completely false. "Creepy" doesn't mean "ugly," it means makes me feel unsafe or threatened. I don't care how hot you are, if you give off rapist/murderer vibes, you're a creep. I have met hot guys who were creepy.
  - InGodsName 8y ago
    As a woman, this is completely false. "Creepy" doesn't mean "ugly," it means makes me feel unsafe or threatened. I don't care how hot you are, if you give off rapist/murderer vibes, you're a creep. I have met hot guys who were creepy. He isn't only talking about physical attraction but attraction as in having a crush on someone or finding them lot attractive. Think about it, if you get a date with your crush, would you think like, oh he might rape me? No such thought doesn't come to us when we are attracted to someone. I can show you screenshot of conversations in which women enjoy my obscene messages. It differs for every girl but what you are saying is not more "normal" than what Ryandrake is saying. What's creepy is a subjective thing. There is no thing Universally Creepy. If a send a dick pic to a girl who had crush on me, is it creepy? She might not agree with you, I've tried :) The girls who are interested in me. I do ask them if they want my nude pics? After realising that i am non judgemental open minded guy, they do tell me that they want nudes. Yea, a few also got offended but i considered them to be feminist kind. I believe sexual desires are nothing to hide. It's better to display your desire for others with all honesty. If they say no, swiftly go back. No need to pester anyone.
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