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As a guy, if you use Tinder it feels like every woman is just looking for a reason to disqualify as a date (because they have so many options). If you register
by laurieg 8y ago
As a guy, if you use Tinder it feels like every woman is just looking for a reason to disqualify as a date (because they have so many options).
If you register an account as the opposite sex it is incredibly informative. Women essentially swamped with matches. They ignore everyone but the few they want to talk to. Men basically swipe right on everyone, there's no point on making a choice because women have the real choice.
It's fascinating how a symmetric system can turn so asymmetric so quickly.
- ryandrake 8y agoWe are talking about a dynamic that is naturally asymmetric, though. Women (at least in today’s world) always have the luxury of selectivity, whether or not an app is involved. Before apps, it was the same numbers game where the man would go out to the club and approach hundreds of women, hoping at least one would be receptive. Have you ever heard of this happening with the genders reversed?