> There were so many people (mostly men) harassing other people (mostly women) on OkCupid. I haven't been on in years but I remember when they handed out moder

> There were so many people (mostly men) harassing other people (mostly women) on OkCupid. I haven't been on in years but I remember when they handed out moderator rights to users. Somehow I got them and could review the flagged messages queues, agree/disagree with flags, and drop notes to other mods. There seemed to be an equal mix of absolutely batshit crazy men, and women who reported every message they received from someone beneath them. I feel like the "only message after shared likes" was implemented to address the later primarily.