> Sweeping it under the rug is just cowardice 100% correct. Too often though, this is the default defense-non-defense for all sorts of awful behavior. However,

> Sweeping it under the rug is just cowardice 100% correct. Too often though, this is the default defense-non-defense for all sorts of awful behavior. However, it's a great tactic to try to switch the conversation from a "should" to a "can".