As you are a family man/woman I would say either get a new job or professional help. I burdened my own partner with unhappiness for a time and wish I had of dea

As you are a family man/woman I would say either get a new job or professional help. I burdened my own partner with unhappiness for a time and wish I had of dealt with things sooner. There are enough suggestions already as to how you might make progress.