1st admit to yourself that work is work. No matter what type of work you do there are parts that you will dislike and don't want to do. 2nd the commute is painf

1st admit to yourself that work is work. No matter what type of work you do there are parts that you will dislike and don't want to do. 2nd the commute is painful. Figure out a way to shorten it to 1/2 an hour a day or find a way that you don't have to drive there-- Uber?. 3rd, yup coworkers can be jerks but you have to find a way to work with them. You are the only one that can change in this situation. They won't change for you. I suggest you read a few books on how to make friends. 1 tip, look at the most popular people and analyze why they are in that position. One thing I've noticed is that techies tend to feel superior to others because they feel they are smarter. The reality is that they are not. They might be in one area of life but life is very broad and no one is that smart. 4th don't get a new job, as you might be wishing, until you can figure out the problem with you and your coworkers. The problem will follow you unless you figure out the problem. Confronting co-workers will not get you many results. They will only come up with answers that will make feel better. It's best to talk to them as friends to help you but that won't happen unless they are friends. Lastly seek help, having someone else's perspective will help you a lot.