Being so enthusiastic as to exagerrate ends up taking away from it. If you "have to" assume anyone who notices that "has to get angry about people celebrating

Being so enthusiastic as to exagerrate ends up taking away from it. If you "have to" assume anyone who notices that "has to get angry about people celebrating women too enthusiastically" you're just pre-emptively calling a modicum of attention and seriousness misogyny. Allow for other possiblities, like confidence in one's own not being a misogynist, that can give a person the freedom to criticize such overdoing which ends up taking away.