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They are in control of their actions. "She made me spill!" "No, she teased you, which she should not have done. You chose to get mad and you threw a fit, knoc
by sethammons 8y ago
They are in control of their actions.
"She made me spill!"
"No, she teased you, which she should not have done. You chose to get mad and you threw a fit, knocking over your glass. That was you, little one. Now clean it up while I go talk with your sister."
- qwerty456127 8y agoThat's a great idea to teach everybody. Fascinatingly so many grown-ups don't understand that. It also can and should go a bit deeper: the fact you are angry or sad doesn't mean anybody has done anything wrong nor the things are bad (perhaps you just didn't sleep well or have a bad diet) and in the majority of cases your idea of what do other people think/feel about you and anything is completely wrong (e.g. if somebody doesn't play with you doesn't mean they dislike you - they probably just feel shy, if somebody does what makes you unhappy doesn't mean they hate you, they probably are not aware it hurts you).