when driving on ice, and start to slide, the ways to take control / stabilize the car is to first let it go wherever it wants to go (i.e. remove yourself from e

when driving on ice, and start to slide, the ways to take control / stabilize the car is to first let it go wherever it wants to go (i.e. remove yourself from equation), analyze that, and then do something if needed/possible (well sometimes u can). decisivenes, or self-sufficiency are also skills. Or, "coming back is not same as staying" - was this written in Amsterdam somewhere? (and the cheshire cat said it doesnot matter which way u start if it does not matter where u want to go.. u still reach somewhere. if..) so.. if u dont know where-to go / progress.. do u want to go/progress ? why? and why that? :)