Good advice, and I love your last tidbit in particular. When I take on bedtime chores, my (stay-at-home) wife gets a second wind to accomplish whatever tasks o

Good advice, and I love your last tidbit in particular. When I take on bedtime chores, my (stay-at-home) wife gets a second wind to accomplish whatever tasks of her own that she's been hoping to get to but has had to put off all day because she was taking care of the younguns. It's a great solution because the kids and I get time together, I get to share in the caretaking chores, and my wife gets a much-needed respite from managing 6 other people's lives for them.