I'm pretty aggressive about telling people not to use the flash when we're out in public; a flash in a bar or other public low light area is super rude, imo.

I'm pretty aggressive about telling people not to use the flash when we're out in public; a flash in a bar or other public low light area is super rude, imo. But just taking a picture with no flash? I know it's a personal thing, but I personally find it less offensive than any other reason you'd pull out a phone.