Finding a spouse is not like applying for a job unless you are on the bachelor. You meet the person one on one and you don’t compete with anyone but your best s

Finding a spouse is not like applying for a job unless you are on the bachelor. You meet the person one on one and you don’t compete with anyone but your best self. No one i ever dated with which I experienced some “competition” was a good match in the long run anyhow. YMMV I guess.