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if you have a significant other to help, it makes all the difference. If it’s just you—forget about it. Not exaggerating. You’ll need a babysitter / nanny. wor
by johnwheeler 8y ago
if you have a significant other to help, it makes all the difference. If it’s just you—forget about it. Not exaggerating. You’ll need a babysitter / nanny.
work remote, 3 kids, wife takes care during the day.
I should also add that if your wife / husband is going to be the primary caregiver, youll have to adapt to their lifestyle/emotions and not the other way around. Child rearing (especially boys in my experience) is way harder and more stressful than writing code all day.
One last thing - it’s a hell of a lot of fun, and my kids, the oldest of which is 6 dont know it any other way. I think it’s healthy for them to be around us all day.