If you both work, find a reliable nanny. I was naive and thought I could watch the baby while working. That lasted a day. When the baby is about a year old, yo

If you both work, find a reliable nanny. I was naive and thought I could watch the baby while working. That lasted a day. When the baby is about a year old, you're going to want to guard any valuables, including work equipment, with a tall fence or closed door. Babies love to use what they see mommy and daddy using, and they are not gentle. Don't be afraid to take a healthy amount of paternity leave if possible.