Do nothing for a year. Put it in treasuries, minus 5%. You can do this yourself. You need to come to terms with having money, and that just takes time. Go thro

Do nothing for a year. Put it in treasuries, minus 5%. You can do this yourself. You need to come to terms with having money, and that just takes time. Go through all the seasons, all the birthdays, holidays, etc, while doing most everything the same.