Not to be a downer, but you might want to look into getting a post nuptial agreement and parking a good chunk of that money in trusts for your kids that you'll

Not to be a downer, but you might want to look into getting a post nuptial agreement and parking a good chunk of that money in trusts for your kids that you'll have access to for the next 10 or so years. This kind of money can change people, depending a lot on their background and upbringing.