Something doesn't add up here :) $400k gross is roughly $20k / month take-home. So $17k after rent, and $15.5k after student loans. I live in a nice 2-bed on

Something doesn't add up here :) $400k gross is roughly $20k / month take-home. So $17k after rent, and $15.5k after student loans. I live in a nice 2-bed on the UWS and have a kid in private school. I'm confused as to how your extravagant lifestyle is eating up $15k / month?