But nobody's talking about "getting rid of nil" wholesale. They're talking about getting rid of null/nil reference exceptions via the mechanisms of non-nullabil

But nobody's talking about "getting rid of nil" wholesale. They're talking about getting rid of null/nil reference exceptions via the mechanisms of non-nullability (having the option to define some variables as non-nullable) and null guards (a compiler which forces a null check before any operation which requires a non-null value). This way you still have null, but with compile-time guarantees that you'll never get null when you didn't expect it.