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Well, I consider this my golden ticket to raise the money needed to comfortably start a family with my partner. Call me Machiavellian, but this is the goal I’m

Well, I consider this my golden ticket to raise the money needed to comfortably start a family with my partner. Call me Machiavellian, but this is the goal I’m willing to work in the sewers a few years.

FakeComments 8y ago
You’re undermining the well-being of your future children by doing so: you generate the start-up costs for your family by creating a world in which a company will psychologically manipulate them from the age they’re starting to form their independent identity onwards. For that matter, it might actually even undermine your relationship with your partner — by constantly exposing them to lifestyle porn and fostering unhappiness. I hope that ends well for you. Sometimes, your means goals can undermine your top-priority goal. If you were really Machiavellian, you’d be a welder with a side project using pilfered IP — realizing that being “in the sewers” is much more productive if you’re not destabilizing the very society you’re going to later depend on.
- aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
  My dad taught me critical thinking and to think about the motives of different actors around us (people, corporations, media, politicians). I’ll try to raise my children similarly. I’ll teach them about privacy, like my dad who insisted that each family member should have their own account on the family computer, even when we were small kids with my brother. The way I see it, if it weren’t for FB, there would be others trying to manipulate them, like other tech companies, advertisers in general, or simply scammers. So the need to raise your children to be conscious about these things is not a recent development, and not strictly due to FB. I know this doesn’t make me “innocent” though.
  - FakeComments 8y ago
    “The world is already toxic, there’s nothing wrong with me manufacturing poison!” I get the logic, I just don’t agree — and I think it’s the kind of thinking that underlies “penny wise, pound foolish” or similar sayings. It’s also just outright untrue that anything like Facebook existed over 20 years ago — you’re contributing to something new, or at least a massive escalation in kind likely to bring about qualitative differences, not merely producing “more of the same”. Also, I think it’s naive to say kids with critical thinking skills are equipped to fend off hundreds of PhDs backed by thousands of programmers implementing their tools, coupled to all of their friends peer pressuring them. Or adults, or institutions, or.... I don’t want you to think I don’t respect your motivations or view, though — I just think you made some errors in assessing trade offs, in a way that hurts not only you, but everyone else. I think that’s worth pointing out. Have a good one, and sincerely, best luck starting a family!
mindgam3 8y ago
Okay, I kind of get where you're coming from... but if you're good enough to get hired at Facebook, why not get hired at another BigTechCo? Maybe you'll get a bit less on salary, but that may be offset by stock options that increase in value. As opposed to joining a company when you are already convinced its value is on the way down, or even hoping for that scenario. It's weird, it's like you're betting against your own team.
- aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
  I’m hoping for their value bottoming around the time I join, cause that maximizes the number of RSUs I get for the nominal value in my contract. After that I’ll be hoping for their stock to shoot up of course. And that’s the scenario OP was outlining.
  - mindgam3 8y ago
    "I’m hoping for their value bottoming around the time I join, cause that maximizes the number of RSUs I get for the nominal value in my contract." You already explained this in your parent comment. "After that I’ll be hoping for their stock to shoot up of course." Why would it suddenly shoot up after you join? Assuming you're not joining as CEO, of course. "And that’s the scenario OP was outlining." What are you referring to? This scenario was not outlined in the original NYT article nor in my root comment.
    - aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
      Sorry, didn’t realize I was replying to you (= OP). I was referring to this scenario: >The stock will have to tank for at least another 3-6 months before the prospect of a shareholder revolt will finally motivate the board of directors to put an adult in charge. If this happens then there’s potential for the stock to bounce back. Of course me joining would have nothing to do with it, but it would be my best-case scenario.

FakeComments 8y ago

You’re undermining the well-being of your future children by doing so: you generate the start-up costs for your family by creating a world in which a company will psychologically manipulate them from the age they’re starting to form their independent identity onwards. For that matter, it might actually even undermine your relationship with your partner — by constantly exposing them to lifestyle porn and fostering unhappiness. I hope that ends well for you. Sometimes, your means goals can undermine your top-priority goal. If you were really Machiavellian, you’d be a welder with a side project using pilfered IP — realizing that being “in the sewers” is much more productive if you’re not destabilizing the very society you’re going to later depend on.

aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
My dad taught me critical thinking and to think about the motives of different actors around us (people, corporations, media, politicians). I’ll try to raise my children similarly. I’ll teach them about privacy, like my dad who insisted that each family member should have their own account on the family computer, even when we were small kids with my brother. The way I see it, if it weren’t for FB, there would be others trying to manipulate them, like other tech companies, advertisers in general, or simply scammers. So the need to raise your children to be conscious about these things is not a recent development, and not strictly due to FB. I know this doesn’t make me “innocent” though.
- FakeComments 8y ago
  “The world is already toxic, there’s nothing wrong with me manufacturing poison!” I get the logic, I just don’t agree — and I think it’s the kind of thinking that underlies “penny wise, pound foolish” or similar sayings. It’s also just outright untrue that anything like Facebook existed over 20 years ago — you’re contributing to something new, or at least a massive escalation in kind likely to bring about qualitative differences, not merely producing “more of the same”. Also, I think it’s naive to say kids with critical thinking skills are equipped to fend off hundreds of PhDs backed by thousands of programmers implementing their tools, coupled to all of their friends peer pressuring them. Or adults, or institutions, or.... I don’t want you to think I don’t respect your motivations or view, though — I just think you made some errors in assessing trade offs, in a way that hurts not only you, but everyone else. I think that’s worth pointing out. Have a good one, and sincerely, best luck starting a family!

mindgam3 8y ago

Okay, I kind of get where you're coming from... but if you're good enough to get hired at Facebook, why not get hired at another BigTechCo? Maybe you'll get a bit less on salary, but that may be offset by stock options that increase in value. As opposed to joining a company when you are already convinced its value is on the way down, or even hoping for that scenario. It's weird, it's like you're betting against your own team.

aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
I’m hoping for their value bottoming around the time I join, cause that maximizes the number of RSUs I get for the nominal value in my contract. After that I’ll be hoping for their stock to shoot up of course. And that’s the scenario OP was outlining.
- mindgam3 8y ago
  "I’m hoping for their value bottoming around the time I join, cause that maximizes the number of RSUs I get for the nominal value in my contract." You already explained this in your parent comment. "After that I’ll be hoping for their stock to shoot up of course." Why would it suddenly shoot up after you join? Assuming you're not joining as CEO, of course. "And that’s the scenario OP was outlining." What are you referring to? This scenario was not outlined in the original NYT article nor in my root comment.
  - aaaaaaaaaab 8y ago
    Sorry, didn’t realize I was replying to you (= OP). I was referring to this scenario: >The stock will have to tank for at least another 3-6 months before the prospect of a shareholder revolt will finally motivate the board of directors to put an adult in charge. If this happens then there’s potential for the stock to bounce back. Of course me joining would have nothing to do with it, but it would be my best-case scenario.