This is really surprising to me. I live in LA and it's the same as your description of the Bay. And it's hard to me to imagine it any other way. What would thes

This is really surprising to me. I live in LA and it's the same as your description of the Bay. And it's hard to me to imagine it any other way. What would these people have to say to me? What could I have to say to them? Which is a way of suggesting that it does both ways. I don't know how people develop the skills necessary to approach someone they don't know.