You do it anyway because it is best for your family. My parents did 1500 miles twice while having 3 kids. My brother did 350 miles with 2 kids. I did 1300 mile

You do it anyway because it is best for your family. My parents did 1500 miles twice while having 3 kids. My brother did 350 miles with 2 kids. I did 1300 miles with 3 kids, and then 120 miles with 5 kids. Being willing to move means that we get short commutes, cost-effective (high goodness per dollar) houses, and plenty of good employment choices. You're giving up a lot if you are unwilling to move.