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> Mangle to use "they"? Mangle? "They" is perfectly fine to use in this situation, it's not mangling at all.

• mirimir 8y ago
  In this case, you're right. Or at least, it's what I'd have done. Still, when I learned English, "they" wasn't singular. I guess that it's the norm now, but it still feels odd. And sometimes using it does require mangling. I'd rather have a set of gender-neutral pronouns, but hey.
  • rincebrain 8y ago
    Singular they dates back over 600 years, while the criticism of it dates back only a hundred or two. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
    • Veen 8y ago
      True, but it has no bearing on what this person was taught when they learned English. It's entirely plausible that some English teachers, influenced by the criticism that arose in the 19th Century, teach that singular they is to be avoided.
      • rincebrain 8y ago
        Sure, I'm not attempting to say that this person was not taught that singular they was not a proper usage, just that it has been a proper usage for longer than any of us have lived.
      • mirimir 8y ago
        I learned English in the context of a native language with lots more structure about genders, forms, cases and tenses. So I guess that it was something my teachers missed. And I went from that to immersion in American culture.
  • janeroe 8y ago
    > when I learned English, "they" wasn't singular Did you learn English before 14th century? Because that's when it emerged.