So, basically this[0] and this[1]. If the author just needed to vent and sympathetic ears, then the columnist's 2000+ words platitude is fine. However, if she r

So, basically this[0] and this[1]. If the author just needed to vent and sympathetic ears, then the columnist's 2000+ words platitude is fine. However, if she really wants out of the situation, then a more pragmatic[2] -- tldr; treat finding a SO like a job; she already professed that she's found no fulfillment on her current job, so might as well -- approach would be more useful. [0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-gfxjAaZg0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-gfxjAaZg0 [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwVRoUxr9pk&t=55 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwVRoUxr9pk&t=55 [2] https://www.npr.org/templates/transcript/transcript.php?storyId=268422490 https://www.npr.org/templates/transcript/transcript.php?stor...