> but most of this limited pool knows they are desirable and do not really want to get bogged down with a family. My friends who enjoyed dating for fun, found

> but most of this limited pool knows they are desirable and do not really want to get bogged down with a family. My friends who enjoyed dating for fun, found they had trouble with it, because most guys were looking to commit - they weren't too interested in merely flings. But this is anecdata, from Europe, so it may have limited applicability.