I tried to read a few articles/websites about parenting when my kids reached the three years. The problem is that most are about what at that time is the curren

I tried to read a few articles/websites about parenting when my kids reached the three years. The problem is that most are about what at that time is the current fad in psych country. Most of that stuff is made up as they go without any scientific proofing what so ever. Never found a good one tbh. I tend to follow the following guidelines: 1. punishments generally don't work as a long term solution, only apply when temper is lost :-) 2. Give lots of freedom so they can make errors. Only apply a rule to a situation when you can make a logical argument about it and make that rule situation specific instead of general. 3. Spent time, talk to them, play games with them, make fun with them know what's going on in their live. It's not perfect but so far they are decent individuals and i have lots of fun