>I’m trying, Polly. I am. I’m dating. I’m working out and working hard. Listening to music Yet she still refuses to lower her standards, apparently. Empowerme

>I’m trying, Polly. I am. I’m dating. I’m working out and working hard. Listening to music Yet she still refuses to lower her standards, apparently. Empowerment can be a hell of a drug. Hell, she has dozens of articles explaining away personal responsibilit and rationalizing the wretched state of her life[1]. E.g. she has another post captioned "resist the urge to treat friendlessness as a personal failure." I think we spent too much time teaching our generation to be confident, rather than teaching us to be competent and practical. Heather really has nothing but her own entitlement to blame, and she continues to be obvlivious. 1.https://www.thecut.com/author/heather-havrilesky/ https://www.thecut.com/author/heather-havrilesky/