> I'd blame that, for me personally, on bad or frustrating experiences. And it's fine if the community acts that way Wait, why is it fine if the community acts

> I'd blame that, for me personally, on bad or frustrating experiences. And it's fine if the community acts that way Wait, why is it fine if the community acts in a way that provides bad or frustrating experiences for specific categories of people (in this case, minorities in comparison to the overall population of that group, which women are in software development)? If someone said "I'm black and I interact with the community less because of bad or frustrating experiences", we probably wouldn't say that's okay, so I'm wondering why you feel it's okay for the community to act that way towards you as a woman? Or did I misinterpret?