> holding the door open for women I hold the door open for everyone. Male, female, and other. This is common courtesy. > The idea of "ladies first". I've nev

> holding the door open for women I hold the door open for everyone. Male, female, and other. This is common courtesy. > The idea of "ladies first". I've never really encountered this. > The custom of men being required to message first on dating services. My wife messaged me first when we met on OkCupid. > Men paying for dinner Similarly, on our first date my wife offered to do half/half, but I insisted on paying largely because she was still a college student at that point, and I was not. > I don't know about the rest of you, but I don't see women jumping to embrace this kind of equality. Well, one of us is the more rare case. I'm not sure which one.