I have the opposite experience. And still managed to surround myself with like-minded people. What did I do? I did what the op wrote: > I find goals that excit

I have the opposite experience. And still managed to surround myself with like-minded people. What did I do? I did what the op wrote: > I find goals that excite me, and I dedicate every molecule in my body towards achieving this goal. I did this for many things. And I finally connected the dots.