The madness is gendered words to be buried so deeply in our psyche in the first place. There's limited need for those assumptions but due to history we let them

The madness is gendered words to be buried so deeply in our psyche in the first place. There's limited need for those assumptions but due to history we let them rise to the top. Its perfectly straight forward to write evocative and passionate prose without concreting to a gender. It makes sense that when we build general purpose tools we encourage them to choose the neutral words more readily because it increases their accuracy without any loss of meaning. Are you really so terrified of a world where "meeting him" is "meeting them"?