Right but exploiting or having an advantage doesn't directly translate into damaging the commons. A tragedy of the commons is when someone utilizes the commons

Right but exploiting or having an advantage doesn't directly translate into damaging the commons. A tragedy of the commons is when someone utilizes the commons in such a way that is simultaneously benefiting them and harming the commons. An example might be one individual drilling for oil in a public park. While that individual profits from the oil, he is also destroying the park for others. How does wearing high heels damage the commons?