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pg's quoted comment http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1833255 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1833255 I've noticed that if you reply to a mean-spirited c
by 8ren 16y ago
pg's quoted comment http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1833255 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1833255
I've noticed that if you reply to a mean-spirited comment with a straightforward and dispassionate counter-argument, completely ignoring its rudeness and tone, you get massive upvotes. Transcending meanness also feels really clean; it is neutralized.
By framing the meanness, the site's collegiality is not undermined, but demonstrated.
- mjfern 16y agoGreat point 8ren, and perhaps this is a solution to the issue. A concern is that the mean-spirited comments are not always countered in a thoughtful manner, or in time before the post drops off the front page. That said, perhaps we can draw on your suggestion, and as a community be more vigilant in quickly responding to mean-sprited comments in a logical and dispassionate manner to counter their effect.