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I don’t mind the downvotes. What concerns me more is the obvious logical circles you are spinning in order to make a weak argument in defense of psychiatry. Yo

I don’t mind the downvotes. What concerns me more is the obvious logical circles you are spinning in order to make a weak argument in defense of psychiatry. Your parent comment: “I have never worked at any addiction program where psychological and behavioral interventions weren't the primary mode of treatment.“ Your latest comment: “Nobody will pay psychiatrists to do talk therapy... for this reason we end up doing mostly medication management...” So let me get this straight. You are currently doing mostly meds, and you’re presumably working at “one of the good places” where psychological methods are the primary mode of treatment. So either you are completely okay with being relegated to a secondary role in treatment (unlikely, given how psychiatrists tend to dominate the conversation thanks to that Dr. title), or, more likely, you are not being sincere when you state your belief that psychological methods are primary. Which is exactly my point. Psychiatrists by their nature and training don’t believe non-pharma methods are the primary solution. Most really try to pretend that they care, but end up prescribing meds in the end. Which was my original point.

phren0logy 8y ago
I have friends who are in orthopedics, and they work with lots of physical therapists. They don't do the physical therapy themselves. Similarly, I'm the medical part of a team, and I'm cool with that. I do the parts that other people can't. It's a pretty standard arrangement and most psychiatrists who treat addiction work this way without much issue.
- loceng 8y ago
  I think we understand those comparisons. The comparison that is missing, and where experience seems to be lacking with practitioners due to its how it has become structured, is doing therapies without harmful medications - that for many people have extremely negative side-effects, withdrawal symptoms - that some would argue cause more permanent problems/changes.
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dang 8y ago
You've crossed into incivility in multiple places here. That's not ok on HN. Please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and refrain from posting like this, even when you feel strongly. I've spent years working with past trauma and many hours in therapeutic circles with traumatized people, so I completely get where you're coming from and our views are probably sympatico. But there's a risk, when one's opinions come from the same intense experiences as one's feelings do, of not leaving enough space for other people. On HN, other people means other commenters, especially ones who are coming from an opposite position. Forum comments tell us very little about who we each are, and inevitably we sketch in the gaps from material of our own past experience. This leaves exchanges fraught with misunderstanding, especially when feelings are strong. We're all responsible for guarding against that.
- mindgam3 8y ago
  dang, I appreciate your efforts to maintain civility and I sincerely apologize if my tone came across as disrespectful towards any member of the HN community. I also appreciate you mentioning your experience with past trauma. Looking back on this comment, I agree that I could have worded this more respectfully. I will strive to do so better moving forward. I would hope that HN is a space where you can call out illogical ideas, which is what I was trying to do. I reacted emotionally because I felt like I was being trolled, which is extremely common for anyone who exposes themselves by speaking about trauma. I can see now that the intent may not have been to troll me. However, I do feel like I’m being singled out a bit unfairly here. Again, not excusing the tone of my own comment, but I’ve received a few replies that feel at least as aggressive as my own. There’s one in particular referring to the “stench” of my comment that felt a bit harsh. All I would ask is for the same standards of civility to be applied to all members. If you see that comment and legitimately believe that mine was noticeably more over the line, please let me know.
  - dang 8y ago
    "Patronizing stench" is not a fair phrase to direct at someone on HN, and I've replied to it. But there's still a difference, it seems to me. Your comments have been the ones sort of inducting this thread in a generally flamewarrish direction. That's understandable when strong views meet strong feelings meet strong experiences, and easy to fall into without fully realizing. This is provocative territory for a lot of us. But HN is lucky to have a user like phren0logy show up to offer his obviously relevant experience on the topic, and if other users respond by somehow questioning his choice of profession, that's a move that's unlikely to lead to better discussion. The best ways I know of to avoid this are to stick to describing one's own experience and to look over one's comment several times for anything unduly personal. It can sneak in in a lot of ways.

phren0logy 8y ago

I have friends who are in orthopedics, and they work with lots of physical therapists. They don't do the physical therapy themselves. Similarly, I'm the medical part of a team, and I'm cool with that. I do the parts that other people can't. It's a pretty standard arrangement and most psychiatrists who treat addiction work this way without much issue.

loceng 8y ago
I think we understand those comparisons. The comparison that is missing, and where experience seems to be lacking with practitioners due to its how it has become structured, is doing therapies without harmful medications - that for many people have extremely negative side-effects, withdrawal symptoms - that some would argue cause more permanent problems/changes.

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dang 8y ago

You've crossed into incivility in multiple places here. That's not ok on HN. Please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and refrain from posting like this, even when you feel strongly. I've spent years working with past trauma and many hours in therapeutic circles with traumatized people, so I completely get where you're coming from and our views are probably sympatico. But there's a risk, when one's opinions come from the same intense experiences as one's feelings do, of not leaving enough space for other people. On HN, other people means other commenters, especially ones who are coming from an opposite position. Forum comments tell us very little about who we each are, and inevitably we sketch in the gaps from material of our own past experience. This leaves exchanges fraught with misunderstanding, especially when feelings are strong. We're all responsible for guarding against that.

mindgam3 8y ago
dang, I appreciate your efforts to maintain civility and I sincerely apologize if my tone came across as disrespectful towards any member of the HN community. I also appreciate you mentioning your experience with past trauma. Looking back on this comment, I agree that I could have worded this more respectfully. I will strive to do so better moving forward. I would hope that HN is a space where you can call out illogical ideas, which is what I was trying to do. I reacted emotionally because I felt like I was being trolled, which is extremely common for anyone who exposes themselves by speaking about trauma. I can see now that the intent may not have been to troll me. However, I do feel like I’m being singled out a bit unfairly here. Again, not excusing the tone of my own comment, but I’ve received a few replies that feel at least as aggressive as my own. There’s one in particular referring to the “stench” of my comment that felt a bit harsh. All I would ask is for the same standards of civility to be applied to all members. If you see that comment and legitimately believe that mine was noticeably more over the line, please let me know.
- dang 8y ago
  "Patronizing stench" is not a fair phrase to direct at someone on HN, and I've replied to it. But there's still a difference, it seems to me. Your comments have been the ones sort of inducting this thread in a generally flamewarrish direction. That's understandable when strong views meet strong feelings meet strong experiences, and easy to fall into without fully realizing. This is provocative territory for a lot of us. But HN is lucky to have a user like phren0logy show up to offer his obviously relevant experience on the topic, and if other users respond by somehow questioning his choice of profession, that's a move that's unlikely to lead to better discussion. The best ways I know of to avoid this are to stick to describing one's own experience and to look over one's comment several times for anything unduly personal. It can sneak in in a lot of ways.