> ... you don't have to be a social butterfly to do well in an office. Indeed "social butterfly" types tend to be bad at communication in your sense #1 because

> ... you don't have to be a social butterfly to do well in an office. Indeed "social butterfly" types tend to be bad at communication in your sense #1 because they aren't clear about their terms, and don't expect it when others are. But then highly technical nerd-engineers also often have the same problems; though perhaps for different reasons.