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I feel like people are so extra about sex. I had more sex than I probably need to in my lifetime when I was younger and I’m not sure there was a point. Sex->res
by hnuser355 8y ago
I feel like people are so extra about sex. I had more sex than I probably need to in my lifetime when I was younger and I’m not sure there was a point. Sex->restaurant->sex->work just makes you fat and unhappy. Now my life is not that stable and I work all the time so I don’t want to find a partner if I don’t think I’ll be a good one. Also not interested in dating or having sex with randoms or friends. So I guess there we have it. I wish incel guys would just focus on having a fulfilling life and learning to socialize normally and then they’d probably get a girlfriend anyway.
- rc_hadoken 8y agoJust curious...are you female or would you consider yourself extroverted?
- hnuser355 8y agoNo & yes. But I feel like a lot of guys confuse extroversion with being “alpha” or successful or whatever when in reality you can just be socially normal and not have such weird hangups.
- rc_hadoken 8y agoI see well I learned by reading and a lot of trial and error not innate socialization. Extroversion means you get what's going on with social games and you care enough to play them. Also, you are energized by socializing with others. I get the games...mostly but most of the time I avoid playing them (stay quiet) or I simply am not present to be a participant. So when you say "hang up" us non-extroverts think (and im trying not to speak for everyone here) "Sure, but I bet you can't be alone by default." Typing this in a slight rush so not sure if my point comes across.